I have to admit now that the one thing that was consistant was water. I used all these products on wet hair. Water was really the best moisurizer, but I didn't understand it at first. Being an African American, it was embedded in me not to get my hair wet. As a child, getting my hair wet meant trouble. I remember what a struggle it was for my mom to get my hair back the way she had it if I accidentally got my hair wet in the shower. I may have been the problem since I didn't like geting my hair pressed with the hot comb. Braids were a must in the summer, if I wanted to go swimming. I would have worn them all the time if I had the choice.
What is it about water. Well, what I have found after 3 years of wearing my hair in its natural state is that I don't have to be afraid of water. In fact, I have actually grown to love it. I wet my hair at least once a day, either by misting it, washing it, or co-washing it. 
The trick is to seal the moisture in. I do that by adding shea butter, jojoba oil, coconut oil, or what ever type of essential oil or butter I have on hand and putting my hair in twists or braids. The fact that oil and water don't mix is a wonderful thing for natural hair. Moisture accomplished.



